Life Quote by Oscar Wilde
““I can't explain. When I like people immensely, I never tell their names to any one. It is like surrendering a part of them. I have grown to love secrecy. It seems to be the one thing that can make modern life mysterious or marvellous to us. The commonest thing is delightful if one only hides it. When I leave town now I never tell my people where I am going. If I did, I would lose all my pleasure. It is a silly habit, I dare say, but somehow it seems to bring a great deal of romance into one's life. I suppose you think me awfully foolish about it?””
About This Quote
Source Essay: The Soul of Man under Socialism, Oscar Wilde, 1891
The author values secrecy in relationships, believing hidden aspects add mystery, romance, and delight to life, and that revealing everything would diminish personal pleasure.
In simple terms: Keeping secrets makes life more mysterious and romantic.
Key Takeaway
Embrace selective privacy to preserve wonder.
Themes
privacy
romance
trust
individuality
Mood
reflective
nostalgic
thoughtful
Type
philosophical
personal
literary
When to use this quote
- dating
- friendship
- travel
- creative work
- personal branding
Key Concepts
existentialism
social critique
personal freedom
Questions to Reflect On
- What do you keep hidden and why?
- How does secrecy affect your relationships?
A Different Perspective
Over‑sharing can erode intimacy and trust.
