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“In my case such an expression as 'to be fallen for' or even 'to be loved' is not in the least appropriate; perhaps it describes the situation more accurately to say that I was 'looked after.” quote by Osamu Dazai
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“In my case such an expression as 'to be fallen for' or even 'to be loved' is not in the least appropriate; perhaps it describes the situation more accurately to say that I was 'looked after.”

Osamu Dazai

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Source Novel: No Longer Human, Osamu Dazai, 1948

The narrator feels that being cared for is more accurate than being loved or fallen for, emphasizing passive protection over active affection.

In simple terms: Being looked after is safer than being loved.

Key Takeaway

Seek protective, caring relationships.

Themes

loneliness identity dependence protection humanity

Mood

melancholic introspective somber

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • healthcare
  • family care
  • friendship
  • emotional support

Key Concepts

Existential alienation social dependency psychological self-concept

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does “being looked after” mean to you?
  • Can protection replace genuine love?
A Different Perspective

Passive care can limit personal agency and growth.

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