Change Quote by Orebela Gbenga
“You know what? Yes, I have changed. I'm not as nice as I used to be, because I don't want to get used or walked over, I don't trust everyone and tell them all my secrets, because behind every fake smile is a backstabbing hypocrite or a heart breaker. I distance myself from people because in the end, they're only going to leave me alone. Dont wonder about my behaviors please, I changed because I realized that I'm the only person I can depend on. But I still think of you and you still mean a lot to me... Please dont doubt me, just believe in me and take me the way I am.”
About This Quote
The speaker describes a shift to self‑protection, distrust, and emotional distance after being hurt, while still caring for someone special.
In simple terms: They've become guarded and self‑reliant, yet still love someone.
Key Takeaway
Balance self‑care with openness.
Themes
trust
self‑protection
relationships
vulnerability
Mood
cautious
reflective
Type
personal
emotional
When to use this quote
- friendship
- romantic partnership
- personal growth
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
boundaries
self‑reliance
emotional resilience
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you protect yourself without shutting others out?
- What steps can rebuild trust gradually?
A Different Perspective
Over‑protectiveness can isolate and hinder intimacy.
