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“. . . I would have let him go one finger at a time, until, without his realizing, he'd be floating without me. And then I thought, perhaps that is what it means to be a [parent] - to teach your child to live without you.” quote by Nicole Krauss
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“. . . I would have let him go one finger at a time, until, without his realizing, he'd be floating without me. And then I thought, perhaps that is what it means to be a [parent] - to teach your child to live without you.”

Nicole Krauss

About This Quote

Source Novel: “The History of Love” by Nicole Krauss, 2005

Parenting involves gradually allowing children to become independent, even as it feels like letting go.

In simple terms: Teach children to live without you.

Key Takeaway

Gradually foster child independence.

Themes

parenting independence love

Mood

emotional reflective

Type

literary psychological

When to use this quote

  • parent‑child bonding
  • life transitions
  • emotional growth
  • caregiver support

Key Concepts

developmental psychology attachment theory

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you balance support and independence?
  • What fears arise when letting go?
A Different Perspective

Balancing protection and freedom is challenging; fear of loss.

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