Ben-young Quote by Neil Young
““Ben Young is out on the deck with his team, having breakfast through his tube. I wonder how that feels. He seems to be content with it, although I am having some trouble reconciling the fact that Ben does not get all the big tastes anymore. He used to love Milanos and milk after every evening dinner. It was a tradition. Sometimes we still give him a tiny taste just for old times' sake. He is so accepting. It's a marvel. He is the most accepting human being I have ever met, and he is very happy. Not all the time, mind you; he has a flair for impatience if he is going somewhere and there is a delay. He just yells! You know he is pissed. There is no stopping him. More power to you, Ben Young! We had to stop feeding Ben Young by mouth because his lungs have become compromised by all the aspirating he does. It's a complex thing, eating. The body does a lot of work to protect itself and keep food out of the lungs. Ben's body is not working like a normal body does. Ben and Dustin and Uncle Tony are out on the deck listening to tunes on the computer and grooving. Ben's next support team is incoming for a shift. Uncle Marian and Ben Bourdon arrive in Hawaii today from the mainland, and the switch takes place around twelve-thirty. Time marches on. Because of the support, Ben has a very full life and keeps moving around, doing things, seeing people and going to events. I reflect on this. Life is good.””
About This Quote
Source Interview: Music Documentary, Neil Young, 2020
Ben Young adapts to health challenges, finding contentment through support, routine, and acceptance despite occasional impatience.
In simple terms: Acceptance and support enable a fulfilling life despite physical limits.
Cultivate support networks and embrace adaptability.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- hospital care
- home caregiving
- rehabilitation programs
- family gatherings
- personal reflection
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can caregivers balance assistance with fostering independence?
- What strategies help maintain patience during health setbacks?
Health issues can cause frustration and limit autonomy, requiring ongoing adjustment.