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“If there was anything I'd learned, it's that the man never chooses the woman. All he can do is give her an opportunity to choose him.” quote by Neil Strauss
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“If there was anything I'd learned, it's that the man never chooses the woman. All he can do is give her an opportunity to choose him.”

Neil Strauss

About This Quote

Source Interview: The Game, Neil Strauss, 2005

Men cannot control a woman's choice; they can only create conditions for her to choose them.

In simple terms: Men cannot choose women.

Key Takeaway

Create genuine connection.

Themes

relationships choice gender dynamics

Mood

thoughtful curious

Type

advice conversational

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • friendship
  • networking

Key Concepts

psychology social dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • What actions foster mutual choice?
  • How do power dynamics affect dating?
A Different Perspective

It assumes agency lies only with women, ignoring mutual influence.

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