Assertive Quote by Nathaniel Branden
“It is a mistake to look at someone who is self assertive and say, "It's easy for her, she has good self-esteem." One of the ways you build self-esteem is by being self-assertive when it is not easy to do so. There are always times when self-assertiven ess requires courage, no matter how high your self-esteem.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Psychology of Self-Esteem, 1969
Self-assertion requires courage even for those with high self-esteem; it builds confidence.
In simple terms: Being assertive is brave, even if you feel confident.
Practice assertiveness in challenging moments.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- workplace negotiations
- public speaking
- conflict resolution
- personal boundaries
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- When have you needed courage to be assertive?
- How does assertiveness affect your self-view?
Assertiveness alone may not fix underlying insecurities.