Adult children Quote by Naoki Higashida
““Your child, too, will one day be an adult. For them to live life with the same degree of independence as neurotypical offspring might be difficult, but one day your child-rearing, child-minding days will come to an end. Parents grow older until they can no longer look after their adult children. The period in which we are together as parents and child is finite. So please, while the child still is a child, and while you’re still around to do so, support them well. Laugh together and share your stories. You won’t be revisiting these years. Value them.””
About This Quote
Source Essay: Parenting and Neurodiversity, 2022
Parents should cherish and support their children while they are still dependent, as this time is limited.
In simple terms: Support and enjoy time with children now.
Invest in relationships before independence.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- family gatherings
- caregiver support
- life planning
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can families prepare for changing dynamics?
- What practices foster lasting bonds?
Children eventually become independent, requiring new support structures.