Ask Advice Quote by Nancy Gibbs; Michael Duffy
““..., but he gave Clinton a tip: when seeking advice from people who are more experienced than you, Nixon urged, tell them what you plan to do first - and then ask for their reaction. Don't ask for advice and then ignore it. That way, Nixon coached, you save on brusied feelings.””
About This Quote
Source Interview: The Presidents Club, 2012
When seeking advice from more experienced people, first share your plan, then solicit their reaction, and actually consider their feedback.
In simple terms: Share your plan before asking for advice and listen to the response.
Key Takeaway
Present your idea, then ask for feedback.
Themes
leadership
communication
mentorship
Mood
thoughtful
professional
Type
advice
leadership
When to use this quote
- business meetings
- career counseling
- project planning
- personal decisions
Key Concepts
feedback loops
psychology of advice
Questions to Reflect On
- How often do you share your plan before asking for advice?
- Do you truly consider the feedback you receive?
A Different Perspective
People may give polite but unhelpful reactions if they feel their expertise isn’t needed.
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