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Inner struggle Quote by Mohsin Hamid

“But I must admit that my motives were no entirely noble; there were in me at least some elements of the anger and hurt vanity that characterize a spurned lover, and these unworthy sentiments helped me to keep my distance.” quote by Mohsin Hamid
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““But I must admit that my motives were no entirely noble; there were in me at least some elements of the anger and hurt vanity that characterize a spurned lover, and these unworthy sentiments helped me to keep my distance.””

Mohsin Hamid

About This Quote

Source Novel: Exit West by Mohsin Hamid, 2017

The narrator admits selfish motives, mixing anger and vanity, yet uses them to keep distance.

In simple terms: Selfish feelings can protect us.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and manage mixed motives.

Themes

self-awareness love self-protection

Mood

introspective cautious

Type

literary psychological

When to use this quote

  • breakups
  • new relationships
  • personal boundaries

Key Concepts

psychology emotional intelligence

Questions to Reflect On

  • What emotions drive your distance?
  • How can you transform negative feelings?
A Different Perspective

Selfish motives may harm others.

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