Being a mother Quote by Milan Kundera
“Tereza's mother never stopped reminding her that being a mother meant sacrificing everything. Her words had the ring of truth, backed as they were by the experience of a woman who had lost everything because of her child. Tereza would listen and believe that being a mother was the highest value in life and that being a mother was a great sacrifice. If a mother was Sacrifice personified, then a daughter was Guilt, with no possibility of redress.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Unbearable Lightness of Being, Milan Kundera, 1984
The quote portrays motherhood as an ideal of total self‑sacrifice, linking a mother’s identity to loss and a daughter’s guilt to that sacrifice.
In simple terms: Motherhood is seen as total sacrifice, causing guilt in children.
Key Takeaway
Recognize personal value beyond imposed sacrifice.
Themes
family
identity
guilt
sacrifice
expectations
Mood
reflective
somber
thoughtful
Type
philosophical
literary
psychological
When to use this quote
- parenting decisions
- intergenerational conflict
- self‑worth assessment
Key Concepts
existentialism
psychology
gender roles
Questions to Reflect On
- How does this view shape your own family expectations?
- Can a mother’s identity include joy as well as sacrifice?
A Different Perspective
It may overlook mothers who find fulfillment beyond sacrifice.
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