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“Call When You Say You’re Going To Call. Sometimes being ambivalent about following up with someone (you kinda/sorta like him but you’re not crazy about him) will lead you to play deliberate phone tag. Maybe you call when you know he’ll be at work. Or you tell him to call when you know you won’t be…” quote by Mike Alvear
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““Call When You Say You’re Going To Call. Sometimes being ambivalent about following up with someone (you kinda/sorta like him but you’re not crazy about him) will lead you to play deliberate phone tag. Maybe you call when you know he’ll be at work. Or you tell him to call when you know you won’t be available. Eventually, when nothing happens because of all the missed connections, you tell yourself, well, at least I tried. No you didn’t. Suck it up and call when you’re supposed to.””

Mike Alvear

About This Quote

It warns that indecision and vague promises in communication often lead to missed opportunities and regret, urging decisive action.

In simple terms: Indecision hurts relationships; act clearly.

Key Takeaway

Stop hesitating; make clear plans.

Themes

communication relationships commitment self‑discipline

Mood

frustrated reflective

Type

advice observational

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • friendship
  • work collaboration
  • networking

Key Concepts

psychology social dynamics confidence

Questions to Reflect On

  • What excuses do you use to avoid direct contact?
  • How could clear communication change the outcome?
A Different Perspective

If you’re honest, you may still be rejected; honesty can be risky.

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