Be good Quote by Michelle Rhee
“We've lost our competitive spirit. We've become so obsessed with making kids feel good about themselves that we've lost sight of building the skills they need to actually be good at things.”
About This Quote
Source Speech: Interview on Education Reform, 2012
Overemphasis on self‑esteem undermines skill development and achievement.
In simple terms: Focusing on feel‑good hurts real learning.
Balance confidence building with rigorous skill training.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- classroom teaching
- parenting
- curriculum design
- student mentorship
- extracurricular coaching
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can we nurture confidence without sacrificing competence?
- What practices build both self‑esteem and skill mastery?
Too much focus on self‑esteem can lead to entitlement and lack of resilience.