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Choice Quote by Michael Stephen Fuchs

“Okay, not a terrible point,” Noise said. “But it’s also a great example – the point that makes my point. We don’t get to choose what happens to us. But we always get to choose how to feel about it. And why on earth would you ever choose to feel anything but good?” Bird snorted. “Mate, it can’t be…” quote by Michael Stephen Fuchs
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““Okay, not a terrible point,” Noise said. “But it’s also a great example – the point that makes my point. We don’t get to choose what happens to us. But we always get to choose how to feel about it. And why on earth would you ever choose to feel anything but good?” Bird snorted. “Mate, it can’t be that easy – not for you, not for anyone. Who could feel good about this?” Noise nodded. “Look. In any situation, there are always many aspects to it, many facets that one can attend to. An infinite number, perhaps. And it is very rare that all of them are completely negative. Can we agree on that?” Bird didn’t respond. “And the thing is this: you get to choose. Which aspects to regard. The good or the bad ones. And that choice will define you. It will certainly define how you feel.””

Michael Stephen Fuchs

About This Quote

Source Novel: Unknown, dialogue excerpt

The passage argues that while we cannot control events, we can choose our emotional response, emphasizing agency in feeling.

In simple terms: We can’t control what happens, but we can choose how we feel.

Key Takeaway

Focus on choosing positive perspectives.

Themes

agency emotion choice

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • personal crisis
  • therapy
  • everyday stress
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

psychology philosophy resilience

Questions to Reflect On

  • What emotions are healthy to choose?
  • When is it appropriate to feel negative emotions?
A Different Perspective

Choosing positivity may ignore genuine pain or injustice.

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