Better way Quote by Michael Lopp
““What’s important is, who needs to move where? Does the incrementalist need to move closer to the completionist’s view or vice versa? In either case, you’ve got to use the simplest trick in the conflict resolution book : finding common ground. A better way to think about this is, “What do these disparate philosophies need from each other?””
About This Quote
Source Blog post: “Finding Common Ground” (2020)
Resolving conflicts involves identifying shared needs between opposing perspectives and using simple compromise.
In simple terms: Find shared needs to resolve conflict.
Seek common ground.
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When to use this quote
- team meetings
- policy debates
- personal disputes
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What common ground exists in your current disagreement?
- How can you balance incremental and completionist goals?
Simplistic tricks may overlook complex issues.