Adults Quote by Michael Gurian
“Our youth want less adult contact if that co ntacttreats them like boys. They want more adult contact that treats them like young men. Tired as they are of the former, they are hungry for the latter”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Way of the Father, Michael Gurian, 2005
Youth desire respect and maturity from adults, not patronizing treatment; they seek guidance that acknowledges their growing identity.
In simple terms: Kids want to be treated like young men, not kids.
Key Takeaway
Offer respect and meaningful mentorship.
Themes
youth development
respect
mentorship
Mood
empathetic
thoughtful
Type
educational
psychological
When to use this quote
- School counseling
- sports coaching
- family discussions
Key Concepts
Psychological growth
intergenerational dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- What changes can adults make to treat youth as emerging adults?
- How does respectful interaction affect youth confidence?
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