Abandoned Quote by Michael D. O'Brien
![“[About the main character approaching death in old age, observed by her husband . . .] He saw that she had already laid down a large portion of her life long ago. Piece by piece she had given it away as she wrestled with existence, as her self was absorbed as nourishment into his life and the life…” quote by Michael D. O'Brien](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/f03/michael-d-o-brien-17161_death_about-the-main-character-approaching-dea_284602.jpg)
““[About the main character approaching death in old age, observed by her husband . . .] He saw that she had already laid down a large portion of her life long ago. Piece by piece she had given it away as she wrestled with existence, as her self was absorbed as nourishment into his life and the life of the children and the community. And laid down most piercingly, as she abandoned, one by one, the shapes of the dreams she had planned. Only to take them up again in other forms.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Book of the People by Michael D. O'Brien, 1999
A woman’s life is gradually given to family and community, losing personal dreams but reshaping them into new roles and meanings.
In simple terms: She sacrifices personal ambitions for others, yet those dreams transform.
Key Takeaway
Embrace change and find purpose in giving.
Themes
sacrifice
family
legacy
transformation
Mood
reflective
melancholic
Type
literary
philosophical
When to use this quote
- parenting
- elder care
- volunteering
- career transition
Key Concepts
existentialism
generativity
identity
community
Questions to Reflect On
- How can one retain individuality while serving others?
A Different Perspective
May personal fulfillment be lost in self‑effacement?
