Being faithful Quote by Merle Shain
“There are problems connected with infidelity and problems connected with being faithful at any cost, and I am for letting those concerned choose the problems they'd prefer. There need not be one rule for all. Infidelity is enlarging and fragmenting and very very dangerous, but it has been known to retrieve people as well as marriages, so it can't be only bad.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Marriage Book by Merle Shain, 1975
Relationships involve complex choices; fidelity and infidelity each have risks and possible benefits, so a single rule cannot suit everyone.
In simple terms: Choosing between loyalty and other options depends on personal values and context.
Key Takeaway
Consider personal values before imposing universal rules.
Themes
relationships
ethics
choice
consequences
Mood
reflective
thoughtful
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- personal decision making
- relationship therapy
Key Concepts
marriage dynamics
personal autonomy
risk assessment
Questions to Reflect On
- What values guide your relationship choices?
- How do you balance personal freedom with commitment?
A Different Perspective
Universal rules may ignore cultural and individual differences.
