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“I am not certain that Lord Carson and I will suit one another." Mostly because she knew she was falling in love with his brother. But that she wouldn't share. She couldn't believe she was speaking so boldly to her mother. To anyone, honestly. Neither, at least according to their expressions, could…” quote by Megan Frampton
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““I am not certain that Lord Carson and I will suit one another." Mostly because she knew she was falling in love with his brother. But that she wouldn't share. She couldn't believe she was speaking so boldly to her mother. To anyone, honestly. Neither, at least according to their expressions, could her mother and Olivia. "What do you mean?" For once, her mother was actually asking her a question that didn't presuppose the answer. "I mean," Eleanor said slowly, feeling how her chest was tightening at even the thought of saying something so undebutante-like, "that I do not wish to go driving with Lord Carson this afternoon. I mean that I would like to be unhampered by an engagement for just a bit more. That how you all are bearing down on me makes it feel as though I am a thing to be manipulated, not a person who could live her own life." Her mother's mouth dropped open, while Olivia looked as though she didn't know whether to cheer or to slap her sister. "Live your own life?" her mother said, her voice rising into a screech. Eleanor winced at the sound. "Your sister made it impossible for any of the rest of you to live your own lives, unless you plan on living your lives in penury and disgrace." "It isn't that horrible," Olivia pointed out in a reasonable tone. "The worst that could happen is that we settle for gentlemen we actually like rather than gentlemen you and Father decide on for us." Now Eleanor wished she could cheer for her sister.””

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About This Quote

Eleanor resists an arranged marriage, asserting her right to choose her own path despite familial pressure.

In simple terms: Defying imposed marital expectations.

Key Takeaway

Personal autonomy over tradition.

Themes

individualism family dynamics gender roles social pressure self-determination rebellion

Mood

defiant anxious determined

Type

dialogue narrative confessional

When to use this quote

  • a young woman confronting a potential fiancé
  • a mother questioning her daughter's motives
  • a sister reacting to a confession
  • a family discussing marriage prospects
  • a protagonist asserting independence

Key Concepts

arranged marriage parental authority sibling rivalry class expectations

Practical Applications

  • advocating for personal choice in relationships
  • highlighting the impact of societal expectations on women's agency

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does societal pressure shape personal decisions?
  • What are the costs of defying family expectations?
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