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Mother Quote by Maya Angelou

“I missed you but I knew you were in the best place for you. I would have been a terrible mother. I had no patience. Maya, when you were about two years old, you asked me for something. I was busy talking, so you hit my hand, and I slapped you off the porch without thinking. It didn’t mean I didn’t…” quote by Maya Angelou
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““I missed you but I knew you were in the best place for you. I would have been a terrible mother. I had no patience. Maya, when you were about two years old, you asked me for something. I was busy talking, so you hit my hand, and I slapped you off the porch without thinking. It didn’t mean I didn’t love you; it just meant I wasn’t ready to be a mother. I’m explaining to you, not apologizing. We would have all been sorry had I kept you.””

Maya Angelou

About This Quote

Source Interview: TheM Angelou: A Life of Poetry and Prose, 2013

A mother reflects on her past shortcomings, acknowledging she wasn't ready for motherhood and expressing love despite past actions.

In simple terms: She admits she wasn’t prepared to be a mother but still loves her child.

Key Takeaway

Accept past mistakes, grow, and nurture with patience.

Themes

parenthood self‑reflection growth

Mood

reflective empathetic

Type

personal emotional

When to use this quote

  • family counseling
  • parent‑child conversations
  • self‑compassion
  • teaching children about forgiveness

Key Concepts

emotional honesty maternal love

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you rebuild trust after a hurtful action?
  • What steps can you take to become more patient?
A Different Perspective

Acknowledging past hurt doesn’t erase ongoing responsibility.

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