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Attraction Quote by Maxine Hong Kingston

“Attraction eludes control so stubbornly that whole societies designed to organize relationships among people cannot keep order, not even when they bind people to one another from childhood and raise them together.” quote by Maxine Hong Kingston
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“Attraction eludes control so stubbornly that whole societies designed to organize relationships among people cannot keep order, not even when they bind people to one another from childhood and raise them together.”

Maxine Hong Kingston

About This Quote

Source Book: The Woman Warrior by Maxine Hong Kingston, 1976

Attraction defies attempts to be regulated, so even societies built to manage relationships cannot fully control it.

In simple terms: Love cannot be fully organized by rules.

Key Takeaway

Accept the unpredictability of love.

Themes

love society control relationships

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

philosophical observational

When to use this quote

  • family upbringing
  • marriage arrangements
  • community matchmaking
  • online dating
  • cultural expectations

Key Concepts

human nature social structures emotional autonomy

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do cultural norms shape your view of love?
  • Can love truly be engineered?
A Different Perspective

Even structured systems influence but cannot dictate personal attraction.

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