Absolutely Quote by Mary Gordon
“I think coldness is chic among writers, and particularly ironic coldness. What is absolutely not allowable is sadness. People will do anything rather than to acknowledge that they are sad.”
About This Quote
Writers often adopt a detached, ironic tone, avoiding overt sadness, because showing vulnerability is socially discouraged
In simple terms: Writers keep a cool, ironic style and hide sadness
Key Takeaway
Embrace honest emotion despite cultural pressure
Themes
art
writing
emotions
Mood
reflective
critical
Type
observational
analytical
When to use this quote
- creative workshops
- personal essays
- mental health discussions
- literary criticism
- teaching writing
Key Concepts
irony
social norms
vulnerability
Questions to Reflect On
- How does a writer's emotional honesty affect reader connection?
- What cultural factors enforce the avoidance of sadness?
A Different Perspective
Some audiences may value authenticity over polished detachment, challenging the notion that sadness is unacceptable
