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Best year Quote by Mary Cholmondeley

“It looks like a waste of life, that mowing down of our best years by a relentless passion which itself falls dead on the top of them. But it is not so. Every year I live I am more convinced that the waste of life lies in the love we have not given, the powers we have not used, the selfish prudence…” quote by Mary Cholmondeley
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“It looks like a waste of life, that mowing down of our best years by a relentless passion which itself falls dead on the top of them. But it is not so. Every year I live I am more convinced that the waste of life lies in the love we have not given, the powers we have not used, the selfish prudence which will risk nothing, and which, shirking pain, misses happiness as well. No one ever yet was the poorer in the long run for having once in a lifetime 'let out all the length of the reins.'”

Mary Cholmondeley

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Story of a Modern Woman, 1905

Life’s true loss is not time wasted, but love withheld, talents unused, and fear of pain preventing joy.

In simple terms: Missing love and purpose wastes life.

Key Takeaway

Embrace love, act boldly.

Themes

love purpose fear

Mood

melancholic inspirational

Type

philosophical reflective

When to use this quote

  • relationships
  • creative projects
  • volunteering
  • personal challenges

Key Concepts

self‑actualization emotional risk meaning

Questions to Reflect On

  • What love have you held back?
  • Which talents are you neglecting?
A Different Perspective

Some may argue that risk can lead to greater loss.

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