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Convince Quote by Mary Balogh

“There is nothing worse, is there," she said, "than a past that has never been fully dealt with. One can convince oneself, that it is all safely in the past and forgotten about, but the very fact that we can tell ourselves that it is forgotten proves that it is not.” quote by Mary Balogh
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“There is nothing worse, is there," she said, "than a past that has never been fully dealt with. One can convince oneself, that it is all safely in the past and forgotten about, but the very fact that we can tell ourselves that it is forgotten proves that it is not.”

Mary Balogh

About This Quote

Source Novel: “A Woman of Substance” (Excerpt), 2011

Unresolved past experiences linger, and claiming they are forgotten proves they are not truly dealt with.

In simple terms: Past issues remain if we pretend they're gone.

Key Takeaway

Confront and process past experiences.

Themes

healing memory psychology

Mood

introspective hopeful

Type

self-help psychological

When to use this quote

  • therapy
  • journaling
  • support groups

Key Concepts

trauma self-deception closure

Questions to Reflect On

  • What past issues are you avoiding?
  • How can you begin to address them?
A Different Perspective

Denial can keep wounds open.

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