Behinds Quote by Martin Amis
“It seems to me that you need a lot of courage, or a lot of something, to enter into others, into other people. We all think that everyone else lives in fortresses, in fastnesses: behind moats, behind sheer walls studded with spikes and broken glass. But in fact we inhabit much punier structures. We are, as it turns out, all jerry-built. Or not even. You can just stick your head under the flap of the tent and crawl right in. If you get the okay.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Money by Martin Amis, 1984
People imagine others are fortified and distant, but we are actually fragile and open to connection if allowed.
In simple terms: We are more vulnerable and accessible than we think.
Key Takeaway
Seek genuine connection beyond perceived barriers.
Themes
vulnerability
connection
perception
Mood
reflective
hopeful
Type
literary
psychological
When to use this quote
- friendship building
- teamwork
- therapy sessions
Key Concepts
social barriers
human intimacy
Questions to Reflect On
- What walls do you assume others have?
- How can you invite authentic interaction?
A Different Perspective
People may resist openness despite opportunities.
