““I had at least begun to guess that my greatest need might be to let go and be free from the drive after achievement — if only I dared. I had also guessed that perhaps when I had let these go, then I might be free to become aware of some other purpose that was more fundamental, not self-imposed private ambitions but some thing which grew out of the essence of one’s own nature. People said: ‘Oh, be yourself at all costs’. But I had found that it was not so easy to know just what one’s self was. It was far easier to want what other people seemed to want and then imagine that the choice was one’s own.””
![“This was my ambition: to become a good wife and mother. Plus one improbable extra: [...] to find, deep inside, my own wiser self, to locate my own special future. I thought these were modest ambitions. They didn't seem too yawning or huge. But perhaps wanting what's essential and simple is the…” quote by Lydia Minatoya](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/857/lydia-minatoya-63899_ambition_this-was-my-ambition-to-become-a-good-wi_2107077.jpg)
