Casting Quote by Marilynne Robinson
“This is not to say that joy is a compensation for loss, but that each of them, joy and loss, exists in its own right and must be recognised for what it is ... So joy can be joy and sorrow can be sorrow, with neither of them casting either light or shadow on the other.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Givenness of Things, Marilynne Robinson, 2015
Joy and loss are independent experiences; each should be acknowledged without comparing their value or using one to diminish the other.
In simple terms: Both joy and sorrow deserve their own space.
Honor each feeling without judgment.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- grief counseling
- mindfulness practice
- creative writing therapy
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can we hold joy and sorrow simultaneously?
- What practices help recognize each feeling’s worth?
People may try to “fix” sorrow with forced positivity.