Adam-bede Quote by Marian Evans
““Our deeds determine us, as much as we determine our deeds; and until we know what has been or will be the peculiar combination of outward with inward facts, which constitutes a man's critical actions, it will be better not to think ourselves wise about his character. There is a terrible coercion in our deeds wihich may first turn the honest man into a deceiver, and then reconcile him to the change; for this reason -- that the second wrong presents itself to him in the guise of the only practicable right. The action which before commission has been seen with that blended common-sense and fresh untarnished feeling which is the healthy eye of the soul, is looked at afterwards with the lens of apologetic ingenuity, through which all things that men call beautiful and ugly are seen to be made up of textures very much alike. - Adam Bede p. 359””
About This Quote
Source Book: Adam Bede by George Eliot, 1859
Our actions shape our identity, and we often misjudge others because we lack full insight into their inner and outer motives.
In simple terms: Actions define us; we misjudge without full insight.
Seek deeper understanding before judging.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- leadership decisions
- conflict resolution
- self‑reflection
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do your actions reflect your true self?
- What steps help you see others’ inner motives?
Human bias can obscure true character, leading to misinterpretation.