Demand Quote by Margery Allingham
“The nicest people fall in love indiscriminately ... while under the influence of that pre-eminently selfish lunacy they may make the most outrageous demands upon their friends with no other excuse than their painful need.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Body in the Library by Margery Allingham, 1942
Love can turn self‑interest into unreasonable demands on friends, driven by deep emotional need.
In simple terms: Love can cause selfish behavior toward friends.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and manage emotional needs in relationships.
Themes
love
selfishness
friendship
emotional need
Mood
conflicted
reflective
Type
literary
observational
When to use this quote
- romantic relationships
- friendship conflicts
- emotional crises
Key Concepts
psychology
interpersonal dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance personal desire with respect for friends?
- What signs show love is becoming selfish?
A Different Perspective
Friends may feel exploited if needs aren't communicated.
