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“We are glad you have been ordained as the first priest of your people. Now you can help us with their problem.' Tagoona asked, 'What is a problem?' and the white man said, 'Tagoona, if I held you by your heels from a third-story window, you would have a problem.' Tagoona considered this long and…” quote by Margaret Craven
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““We are glad you have been ordained as the first priest of your people. Now you can help us with their problem.' Tagoona asked, 'What is a problem?' and the white man said, 'Tagoona, if I held you by your heels from a third-story window, you would have a problem.' Tagoona considered this long and carefully. Then he said, 'I do not think so. If you saved me, all would be well. If you dropped me, nothing would matter. It is you who would have the problem.””

Margaret Craven

About This Quote

Source Short story: “The First Priest” by Margaret Craven, 1965

A dialogue explores the paradox of dependence and self‑reliance, questioning who truly bears responsibility.

In simple terms: A conversation about who truly has the problem.

Key Takeaway

Recognize personal agency in crises.

Themes

responsibility dependence paradox

Mood

thoughtful serious reflective

Type

philosophical dialogue

When to use this quote

  • leadership decisions
  • family disputes
  • community crises
  • personal dilemmas

Key Concepts

ethical philosophy cultural encounter

Questions to Reflect On

  • Who is responsible when help is offered?
  • How does power affect perceived problems?
A Different Perspective

May simplify complex cultural dynamics.

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