Choice Quote by Margaret Atwood
“What is it the I'll want from you? Not love: that would be too much to ask. Not forgiveness, which isn't yours to bestow. Only a listener, perhaps; only someone who will see me. Don't prettify me though, whatever else you do: I have no wish to be a decorated skull. But I leave myself in your hands. What choice do I have? By the time you read this last page, that- if anywhere- is the only place I will be.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Handmaid’s Tale (sequel) by Margaret Atwood, 2020
The speaker seeks only to be seen and heard, rejecting superficial praise, and acknowledges their vulnerability and lack of agency.
In simple terms: He wants listening, not love or forgiveness, and feels powerless.
Seek authentic connection over empty accolades.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal confession
- literary monologue
- therapy sessions
- relationship counseling
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What does being truly seen mean to you?
- How can you balance vulnerability with self‑protection?
The desire for validation may still leave one feeling exposed.