Forgiveness Quote by Margaret Atwood
““It's impossible to say a thing exactly the way it was, because what you say can never be exact, you always have to leave something out, there are too many parts, sides, crosscurrents, nuances; too many gestures, which could mean this or that, too many shapes which can never be fully described, too many flavours, in the air or on the tongue, half-colours, too many. But if you happen to be a man, sometimes in the future, and you've made it this far, please remember: you will never be subjected to the temptation of feeling you must forgive, a man, as a woman. It's difficult to resist, believe me. But remember that forgiveness too is power. To beg for it is a power, and to withhold or bestow it is a power, perhaps the greatest. (p.208-209)””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Handmaid’s Tale, Margaret Atwood, 1985
Language can never fully capture reality; forgiveness is a potent, dual‑edged power that can be granted or denied.
In simple terms: Words are imperfect; forgiveness is powerful.
Key Takeaway
Recognize forgiveness as a choice of power.
Themes
communication
power
gender dynamics
ethics
Mood
reflective
thoughtful
critical
Type
philosophical
ethical
literary
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- political negotiations
- conflict resolution
- self‑reflection
Key Concepts
language limits
forgiveness as agency
gendered expectations
Questions to Reflect On
- How does gender influence perceptions of forgiveness?
- When might forgiveness be a weakness?
A Different Perspective
The quote assumes forgiveness is always a power move, ignoring its emotional complexity.
