Doing things Quote by Margaret Atwood
““I want my father to be just my father, the way he has always been, not a separate person with an earlier, mythological life of his own. Knowing too much about other people puts you in their power, they have a claim on you, you are forced to understand their reasons for doing things and then you are weakened.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Handmaid's Tale, Margaret Atwood, 1985
Knowing intimate details about others gives them power over you, weakening your autonomy and emotional independence.
In simple terms: Too much knowledge of others can control you.
Guard personal boundaries.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- family dynamics
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance empathy with self‑protection?
- When does knowing someone become a threat?
People can protect themselves by limiting invasive curiosity.