Encounters Quote by Marcus Tullius Cicero
“We rejoice in the joys of our friends as much as we do our own, and we are equally grieved at their sorrows. Wherefore the wise people will feel toward their friends as they do toward themselves, and whatever labor they would encounter with a view to their own pleasure, they will encounter also for the sake of their friends.”
About This Quote
Source Speech: On Friendship, Cicero, 44 BC
Recognizing that true friendship mirrors self‑care, we share in both joy and sorrow, extending empathy and effort as we would for ourselves.
In simple terms: Treat friends’ feelings as your own.
Key Takeaway
Practice empathy and mutual support.
Themes
friendship
empathy
reciprocity
Mood
compassionate
reflective
Type
ethical
philosophical
When to use this quote
- counseling
- teamwork
- community building
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
Stoicism
social harmony
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance self‑care with caring for others?
- When does empathy become self‑sacrifice?
A Different Perspective
Friends may have needs beyond your capacity; over‑identifying can cause burnout.
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