Every man Quote by Marcus Aurelius
““III. I have often wondered how it should come to pass, that every man loving himself best, should more regard other men's opinions concerning himself than his own. For if any God or grave master standing by, should command any of us to think nothing by himself but what he should presently speak out; no man were able to endure it, though but for one day. Thus do we fear more what our neighbours will think of us, than what we ourselves.””
About This Quote
Source Meditations: Book 2, Marcus Aurelius, c. 180 AD
People often value others’ opinions over their own, fearing judgment more than personal truth.
In simple terms: We fear others’ judgments more than our own thoughts.
Trust your own judgment.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- decision making
- social media
- peer pressure
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you let others shape your choices?
- When is it wise to consider others’ views?
External opinions can sometimes be constructive.