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“III. I have often wondered how it should come to pass, that every man loving himself best, should more regard other men's opinions concerning himself than his own. For if any God or grave master standing by, should command any of us to think nothing by himself but what he should presently speak…” quote by Marcus Aurelius
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““III. I have often wondered how it should come to pass, that every man loving himself best, should more regard other men's opinions concerning himself than his own. For if any God or grave master standing by, should command any of us to think nothing by himself but what he should presently speak out; no man were able to endure it, though but for one day. Thus do we fear more what our neighbours will think of us, than what we ourselves.””

Marcus Aurelius

About This Quote

Source Meditations: Book 2, Marcus Aurelius, c. 180 AD

People often value others’ opinions over their own, fearing judgment more than personal truth.

In simple terms: We fear others’ judgments more than our own thoughts.

Key Takeaway

Trust your own judgment.

Themes

self‑esteem social influence philosophy

Mood

contemplative serene

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • decision making
  • social media
  • peer pressure

Key Concepts

Stoicism self‑knowledge

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you let others shape your choices?
  • When is it wise to consider others’ views?
A Different Perspective

External opinions can sometimes be constructive.

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