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Every man Quote by Marcus Aurelius

“I have often wondered how it is that every man loves himself more than all the rest of men, but yet sets less value on his own opinion of himself than on the opinion of others. If then a god or a wise teacher should present himself to a man and bid him to think of nothing and to design nothing…” quote by Marcus Aurelius
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““I have often wondered how it is that every man loves himself more than all the rest of men, but yet sets less value on his own opinion of himself than on the opinion of others. If then a god or a wise teacher should present himself to a man and bid him to think of nothing and to design nothing which he would not express as soon as he conceived it, he could not endure it even for a single day. So much more respect have we to what our neighbours shall think of us than to what we shall think of ourselves.””

Marcus Aurelius

About This Quote

Source Book: Meditations, Marcus Aurelius, c. 180 AD

People often value others' judgments over their own self‑assessment, leading to self‑doubt and conformity.

In simple terms: We trust others' opinions more than our own.

Key Takeaway

Cultivate inner confidence and independent thinking.

Themes

self‑esteem social influence philosophy

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • making decisions
  • personal growth
  • leadership
  • peer pressure

Key Concepts

Stoicism self‑perception conformity

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you balance external feedback with inner conviction?
  • What steps can you take to trust your own judgment?
A Different Perspective

Self‑validation can be fragile and may conflict with societal norms.

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