Restrain Quote by Marcus Aurelius
““A very ridiculous thing it is, that any man should dispense with vice and wickedness in himself, which is in his power to restrain; and should go about to suppress it in others, which is altogether impossible.””
About This Quote
Source Book: Meditations by Marcus Aurelius, 2nd century AD
People often try to control others' flaws while ignoring their own, even though self‑control is within their power.
In simple terms: We focus on fixing others instead of ourselves.
Check your own behavior before judging.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- leadership
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What personal vice could you restrain today?
- How do you react when others are judged?
Self‑control is harder than criticizing others.