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Restrain Quote by Marcus Aurelius

“A very ridiculous thing it is, that any man should dispense with vice and wickedness in himself, which is in his power to restrain; and should go about to suppress it in others, which is altogether impossible.” quote by Marcus Aurelius
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““A very ridiculous thing it is, that any man should dispense with vice and wickedness in himself, which is in his power to restrain; and should go about to suppress it in others, which is altogether impossible.””

Marcus Aurelius

About This Quote

Source Book: Meditations by Marcus Aurelius, 2nd century AD

People often try to control others' flaws while ignoring their own, even though self‑control is within their power.

In simple terms: We focus on fixing others instead of ourselves.

Key Takeaway

Check your own behavior before judging.

Themes

self‑reflection humility control

Mood

thoughtful serious

Type

philosophical ethical

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • leadership
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

stoicism psychology ethics

Questions to Reflect On

  • What personal vice could you restrain today?
  • How do you react when others are judged?
A Different Perspective

Self‑control is harder than criticizing others.

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