Parenting Quote by Marcel Proust
““Then his tears came once more, and feeling cold he went into his dressing-room to look for something to throw around his shoulders. But he had lost control of his hand so that it moved like a brainless creature and completely failed to carry out the small mathematical operation which consisted, because the inside of the wardrobe was dark, in fumbling a way through the different velvets, silks and satins of his mother's outmoded dresses which, since she had given up wearing them, for many years, she had put away in this piece of furniture, until it could feel the wooden jamb, far back, which separated these garments from his own, and, on reaching the second rough-surfaced coat, to take it from the hanger from which it depended. Instead, it tore down the first piece of fabric it encountered. This happened to be a black velvet coat, trimmed with braid, and lined with cherry-coloured satin and ermine, which, mauled by the violence of his attack, he pulled into the room like a young maiden whom a conqueror has seized and dragged behind him by the hair. In just such a way did Jean now brandish it, but even before his eyes had sent their message to his brain, he was aware of an indefinable fragrance in the velvet, a fragrance that had greeted him when, at ten years old, he had run to kiss his mother—in those days still young, still brilliant and still happy—when she was all dressed up and ready to go out, and flung his arms about her waist, the velvet crushed within his hand, the braid tickling his cheeks, while his lips, pressed to her forehead, breathed in the glittering sense of all the happiness she seemed to hold in keeping for him.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: In Search of Lost Time, Volume 1, 1913
The passage describes a visceral, sensory memory triggered by a tactile encounter with a velvet coat, linking present action to childhood affection and the lingering scent of maternal love.
In simple terms: A memory resurfaces when touching a familiar fabric, recalling a mother’s love.
Notice how sensory details can unlock deep emotional memories.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- grieving a loved one
- revisiting childhood home
- handling heirlooms
- reflecting on family heritage
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What objects in your life hold hidden memories?
- How does scent influence your recollection of people?
The narrative may romanticize the past, overlooking present complexities of grief and loss.