Causes Quote by Madeleine L'Engle
“Friends--or lovers--are not always available to each other. Inner turmoils can cause us to be unhearing when someone needs us, to need to receive understanding when we should be giving understanding.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: A Wrinkle in Time by Madeleine L'Engle, 1962
Relationships can be strained by personal turmoil, making us inattentive to others' needs while craving support ourselves.
In simple terms: Inner conflict blocks mutual support.
Cultivate self‑awareness and active listening.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- family gatherings
- friend crises
- therapy sessions
- team projects
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you balance caring for yourself and others?
- What signs show you’re becoming unhearing?
If you’re overwhelmed, you may unintentionally neglect others.