Falling for someone Quote by M Scott Peck
“Real love is a permanently self-enlarging experience. Falling in love is not.”
About This Quote
Source Book: “People of the Lie,” 1983
True love expands one’s self, whereas falling in love is a temporary, self‑focused experience.
In simple terms: Real love grows you; infatuation doesn’t.
Key Takeaway
Seek relationships that foster personal growth.
Themes
love
personal development
relationships
Mood
reflective
hopeful
Type
literary
psychological
When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- friendship building
- self‑help workshops
Key Concepts
psychology
spirituality
human growth
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you differentiate love from infatuation?
- What practices nurture lasting love?
A Different Perspective
Romantic idealism can blur this distinction.
