Told Quote by Lyudmila Ulitskaya
““When I was young I believed people should be told everything and that, as a pastor, I had a duty to share all my knowledge. Over the years I came to see that was a mistake. A person may know only what they are capable of assimilating. I have been thinking about this for half my life, and especially since I have been in Israel, but there are few people I can confide in. Really only you. You see, it is a terrible thing to disturb someone’s equilibrium. If a person has become accustomed to thinking in a particular way, even a slight digression from that can prove painful. Not everybody is open to new ideas, to making their understanding more precise and supplementing it, to change. I have to admit that I am changing. Today my views on many matters have diverged from those generally accepted in the Catholic world, and I am not the only person in that situation. “You see, the birth of the One whom””
About This Quote
Sharing all knowledge can overwhelm; teaching must respect individual capacity and mental balance.
In simple terms: Teach wisely, respecting limits.
Key Takeaway
Tailor communication to what others can absorb.
Themes
education
communication
psychology
personal growth
religion
Mood
thoughtful
considerate
Type
ethical
educational
When to use this quote
- mentoring
- counseling
- public speaking
- interfaith dialogue
Key Concepts
cognitive load
empathy
ethical teaching
Questions to Reflect On
- When is it better to with back?
- How can you gauge someone’s readiness for new ideas?
A Different Perspective
Overloading information can cause distress and resistance.
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