Command Quote by Lysa TerKeurst
“Do not confuse the command to love with the disease to please.”
About This Quote
Source Book: “The Best Yes”, 2020
Love should not be confused with the compulsion to please others.
In simple terms: Love ≠ pleasing disease.
Key Takeaway
Distinguish love from people‑pleasing.
Themes
love
boundaries
people‑pleasing
Mood
thoughtful
encouraging
Type
spiritual
personal
When to use this quote
- marriage
- friendships
- leadership roles
Key Concepts
theology
psychology of relationships
Questions to Reflect On
- What boundaries protect your love?
- How do you recognize genuine love versus approval?
A Different Perspective
People‑pleasing can be deeply ingrained.
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