Better way Quote by Lukasz Laniecki
““There is no better way to crush someone’s self-confidence than to tell this person that her / his choice was wrong, and that she / he should have listened to us (parents). Because, obviously, we know how to make the right choices and she / he does not.””
About This Quote
Source Interview: Personal development podcast, 2023
Undermining someone's confidence by claiming superior knowledge is destructive and dismisses their agency.
In simple terms: Criticizing others' choices harms confidence.
Key Takeaway
Respect others' decisions.
Themes
confidence
authority
parenting
Mood
defensive
critical
Type
advice
warning
When to use this quote
- family discussions
- mentor-ment
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
psychology
power dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- How does dismissing someone's choice affect their self‑esteem?
- When is it appropriate to give advice?
A Different Perspective
Such criticism can backfire, causing resentment and loss of trust.
