““Just bring in the wood before she asks for it, and bring her a flower every time you come back from the field. If it's cold put a shawl around her shoulders, and if it's hot, bring her a glass of water. It's simple. Women only nag when they feel unappreciated. Think of her as your mother who has fallen ill, and treat her accordingly.'(43)””
![“[On her mother:] My relationship with her is close, painful, and skaky, and I always have to keep searching for a sign of love. Everything I do, I do to please her, to make her smile, to ward off her fury. This work is extremely exhausting.” quote by Tove Ditlevsen](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/5a6/tove-ditlevsen-48825_exhausting_on-her-mother-my-relationship-with-her-i_2620330.jpg)
