Ask yourself Quote by Lori Gottlieb
““Look for reasons to say 'yes' instead of 'no,' he reminded me. Screen in rather than constantly screening out. Always ask yourself this: If an interesting guy were right in front of you, would you honestly turn that person away because of a few pounds or inches, or a sentence in a profile that you don't like? If so, that's fine. Just don't complain when you can't find anybody suitable because you've eliminated every potential guy on a technicality. Because if these guys eliminated people on technicalities, they probably wouldn't date you, either.””
About This Quote
Source Interview: The Gottlieb Podcast, 2022
Encourage openness by focusing on positives rather than dismissing people over minor flaws.
In simple terms: Say yes more often, filter less.
Key Takeaway
Embrace opportunities, reduce unnecessary rejection.
Themes
relationships
mindset
acceptance
Mood
hopeful
reflective
Type
advice
motivational
When to use this quote
- online dating
- networking events
- friendship circles
- team building
- first impressions
Key Concepts
psychology
social dynamics
bias
self-awareness
Questions to Reflect On
- What minor flaw could you overlook for a deeper connection?
- How does saying yes more often change your social life?
A Different Perspective
Over‑emphasis on compatibility can lead to poor matches.
