““not allowing yourself to enjoy it when things are good only robs you of happiness. Joy is something you need to feel, and it’s not any less joyful if it’s temporary. If those happy moments at the beginning are all you have, you need to let go and just hope for the best. Imagine the best. Otherwise, you ruin all the good moments by focusing on the possibility of losing them or being hurt. You can’t go through life like that.” “That...””