Applause Quote by Lord Chesterfield
![“The only sure way of avoiding these evils [vanity and boasting] is never to speak of yourself at all. But when, historically, youare obliged to mention yourself, take care not to drop one single word that can directly or indirectly be construed as fishing for applause.” quote by Lord Chesterfield](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/caf/lord-chesterfield-757_applause_the-only-sure-way-of-avoiding-these-evil_2803297.jpg)
“The only sure way of avoiding these evils [vanity and boasting] is never to speak of yourself at all. But when, historically, youare obliged to mention yourself, take care not to drop one single word that can directly or indirectly be construed as fishing for applause.”
About This Quote
Source Letter: Advice to a Young Gentleman, 1748
Avoid self-praise to prevent vanity; when self-reference is unavoidable, keep it modest and free of self‑aggrandizement.
In simple terms: Don’t brag; be humble.
Key Takeaway
Speak modestly about yourself when needed.
Themes
humility
vanity
communication
self‑presentation
Mood
considerate
pragmatic
Type
advice
ethical
When to use this quote
- networking
- public speaking
- self‑promotion
Key Concepts
social etiquette
self‑esteem
public speaking
Questions to Reflect On
- When is it appropriate to mention your achievements?
- How can you convey competence without boasting?
A Different Perspective
Over‑emphasis on self can damage credibility.
![“All the shows we did pre-airdate, and I'd come out - "Rob Lowe!" - and it was [Offers bored applause.] After the show aired? I came out - "Rob Lowe!" - and the place was, like, bedlam. And then the next week, they wouldn't let anyone under the age of 20 into the audience. And I'm going, "So that's…” quote by Rob Lowe](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/66b/rob-lowe-855_age_all-the-shows-we-did-pre-airdate-and-i-d_31307.jpg)
