Anger Quote by Lord Chesterfield
“It is often more necessary to conceal contempt than resentment; the former is never forgiven, but the later is sometimes forgotten.”
About This Quote
Source Letter: Advice to a Young Man, 1740
Concealing contempt is more prudent than showing resentment; contempt is unforgiven, resentment may fade.
In simple terms: Hide contempt, let resentment fade.
Key Takeaway
Practice restraint in expressing negative feelings.
Themes
emotions
social etiquette
forgiveness
Mood
cautious
thoughtful
Type
philosophical
practical
When to use this quote
- workplace
- family gatherings
- political discourse
Key Concepts
pride
humility
psychology
Questions to Reflect On
- When is it better to confront than conceal?
- How does hidden contempt affect relationships?
A Different Perspective
Concealing can breed internal tension.
