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“It’s a . . . transcendental act. Making life. . . I thought about it when I was carrying Miles. ‘By this act, I bring one death into the world.’ One birth, one death, and all the pain and acts of will between. . . . A Barrayaran sexual “accident” can start a chain of causality that doesn’t stop…” quote by Lois McMaster Bujold
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““It’s a . . . transcendental act. Making life. . . I thought about it when I was carrying Miles. ‘By this act, I bring one death into the world.’ One birth, one death, and all the pain and acts of will between. . . . A Barrayaran sexual “accident” can start a chain of causality that doesn’t stop until the end of time. Our children change us . . . whether they live or not. Even though your child was chimerical this time, Drew was touched by that change, where you not?””

Lois McMaster Bujold

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Source Novel: The Barrayar Saga, 1995

Creating life is a profound act that intertwines birth, death, and endless consequences, highlighting how each child reshapes the world regardless of their fate.

In simple terms: Having a child is a deep act linking birth, death, and lasting impact.

Key Takeaway

Recognize the lasting influence of each life you touch.

Themes

parenthood existential consequence

Mood

reflective serious

Type

philosophical emotional

When to use this quote

  • family planning
  • adoption decisions
  • legacy building
  • ethical debates

Key Concepts

causality ethical responsibility life cycles

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you balance the joy and burden of parenthood?
  • What responsibilities arise from creating life?
A Different Perspective

The weight of responsibility may overwhelm some parents.

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