Als Quote by Lisa Kleypas
“The worst part about loving someone, Merripen, is that there will always be things you can't protect her from. Things beyond your control. You finally realize there is something worse than dying . . . and that is having something happen to her. You have to live with that fear always. But you have to take the bad part, if you want the good part." Kev looked at him bleakly. "What's the good part?" A smile touched Cam's lips. "All the rest of it is the good part," he said, and went.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Love & Fear, 2015
Loving someone means fearing loss and harm; accepting that fear is part of love allows you to cherish the remaining joys.
In simple terms: Love includes fear; accept it to enjoy love.
Key Takeaway
Embrace love despite inevitable fears.
Themes
love
fear
acceptance
loss
Mood
hopeful
somber
Type
narrative
philosophical
When to use this quote
- romantic relationships
- parenthood
- caregiving
Key Concepts
attachment theory
emotional resilience
Questions to Reflect On
- What fears hold you back from fully loving?
- How can you balance love with realistic concerns?
A Different Perspective
Fear can dominate and hinder love.
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